How to Find a Perfect Partner
Many couples come to the moment when they want to try to invite someone else to their bed. Why do such thoughts creep into the heads of even the most faithful, respectable wives and husbands?
Sexologists say that the love of three can make the relationship bright and unforgettable. Still, they warn that you need to be prepared physically and morally for such experiments.
How to convince your partner to agree to have threesome sex is one of the most popular on specialized forums. And not by chance. Many couples intuitively reject this option, clearly anticipating serious problems in the relationship.
No matter how liberated we are and how much we talk about sexual freedom, for most of us, a situation when a loved one has sex with another person in our presence is, putting it mildly, quite unusual.
What to do? Follow your desires, but at the same time be sensitive to the feelings of your partner.
You need to honestly explain to him why you want to try the love of three. It is important to dispel his fears, jealousy, and resentment, convey that you will not stop loving him and will not part, that it is not due to his appearance or ability to satisfy you.
Answer all questions, talk in detail about how and where this will occur, and let this topic become an object for jokes.
Approach it as if you were talking about some unusual but very exciting adventure and one of the things adults can do when they are really bored.
Where to find a partner for the experiment
After you finally make sure you want to do this and discuss all the details, you need to find a suitable third partner who shares your interests and values. For a successful search, use a few simple rules:
- No need to look for a partner in social networks or online dating sites if they are not intended for this. After short testing, I have not met a single person who wanted to meet in real life with a couple of lesbians or someone with unusual views in life. Therefore, it will probably be a little weird to write to someone about a threesome on a dating site because their people are looking for a serious relationship. Instead, it is better to use a specialized site and 3some app. There, people are looking for the same thing as you, so it will be much easier to find the right person.
- Try not to consider options involving your friends and acquaintances. First of all, you may lose your chance to have threesome sex if your partner thinks that you want to sleep with one of your friends with his consent. And if you seriously plan to do this with someone you know, make sure that the person with whom it happens will accept everything adequately and you will not avoid meeting each other in the future. But in any case, threesome sex with a familiar person, in practice, carries a lot of problems; I think you do not need them.
- If you are looking for someone in a club or bar, do it together. Most couples start by sending a girl or a guy to flirt with the alleged third partner and then quietly joined the couple. It did not work. Time was wasted, laying hope on the person who then refused them. As many real threesome stories show, it is better to be together and to offer to buy a drink for the chosen one. This will allow for weeding out those candidates who will refuse to continue the banquet.
- Look for theme parties in your city. It might also be a good solution. In every major city, there are themed clubs and closed communities for adults. Most likely, you do not have to spend a lot of time to find exactly what you expect. After all, there is already everything on the same wavelength, and you will not need to explain something and cheat.
